Unexpected Gifts: A Lesson from a Diamond Ring

On Christmas morning, I looked under the tree but didn’t see any boxes with my name, not even the one containing the special white sweater I requested. After our children opened all their gifts, I gave my husband his present. Finally, he reached to the inner parts of the tree and drew out a tiny box. Inside, I found a beautiful diamond ring he’d bought.

At church today, a friend commented on my ring, and I explained that years ago, I asked for a pretty white sweater for Christmas, not an everyday sweater, but something special. Was I disappointed? Absolutely not! The ring was worth much more than my request and would last the rest of my life.

Or, imagine if you were newly married and thought you’d move into a one-bedroom apartment. Instead, on returning from your honeymoon, the Uber arrived at a mansion. Thinking this was someone else’s home, you said you’d rather visit later. However, the driver said, “I present your new home! You won the lottery this morning!”

How often do we receive gifts greater than we’d imagined? My marriage of 66 years changed my life forever, and I can’t imagine being without that man. Our two sons and two daughters are tremendously important and bless me in dozens of ways. What did I consider when my husband and I married? I knew we loved each other and thought we’d never get divorced but had no idea that we’d be blessed with so many years together. When our children were born, we loved them but couldn’t imagine what fine men and women they’ve become, and we’re so proud of them.

Often we don’t realize the significance of a gift when we first receive it, just as I couldn’t think of the many good years my husband and I have had. When children are babies, we hope they grow into moral, considerate people. Believers in Jesus pray that their children will love and serve God as they do.

I see ways these metaphors parallel what God does for us throughout our lives. I believed Jesus died on the cross to pay for my sins when I was a child. My sins at that time included not always obeying my parents or fussing with my brother. Yet, I understood that those were still sins in God’s eyes because they were things he said not to do. Jesus not only paid for those faults, his death and resurrection made me a child of God, not just a child of my parents.

As I child, I had no idea what that salvation would become through my long history with God. He gave me such a wondrous gift that I could never even have the words to thank him adequately, much less deserve or repay it. He gave me a huge diamond ring when I asked for an inexpensive sweater. I didn’t even know to ask for that sweater until the Holy Spirit from God awakened my heart to want it. This huge diamond has lasted not only all my life, but I’ll still be wearing it in heaven with my Lord for eternity.

God has given me many gifts but next to my salvation, I think the most important is God’s tremendous individual love for me. Which, of course, is the reason he planned my salvation, but I didn’t know that at the time.

I know Creator God loves everyone, but he loves me! The old children’s song Jesus Loves Me states the fact clearly, but it’s a song we sing with small children. Actually, it’s one we need to sing the rest of our lives! Not that God doesn’t love others in that same way, because he does. How I wish I’d sung and believed that song when I felt so inadequate at different times.

Our heads know that our heavenly Father loves us, but that knowledge doesn’t go down into our emotions and minds. It doesn’t permeate us, and that’s vital. Then we know that whatever our circumstances, his love never leaves us, even when we don’t have a clue about why we’re in that situation and want out immediately. Father’s love gives us hope for when we’ve come though the challenge.

When my health turned in a way I definitely didn’t like and “bad” major events hit three other members of our family one year, a part of me wanted to run from God. At that very time, my loving heavenly Father assured me of his love more than I’d ever known it previously. Not even in my closest times with him did that expression of love stay with me. He chased me until I returned to him because I simply couldn’t resist that love.

The more I look at my life, the more I realize that this is a Father who delights in giving diamond rings instead of sweaters. Sometimes I concentrate on my desire for that sweater and overlook the tiny box in the tree. I want to learn to appreciate that ring more than I concentrate on the sweater. Often, we make resolutions for the new year, and I think this is a beneficial one to work on all year.

Does that mighty love from your heavenly Father permeate your life? Do you know that he says he will never leave you or forsake you? (Hebrews 13:5b) If you don’t know that wondrous love of God, simply ask him. He’s more anxious to share it than you are to receive it. Will you accept my challenge to look more for God’s diamond rings than a sweater? To look for a mansion instead of a one-bedroom apartment?

The Lord your God is in your midst, a mighty one who will save; he will rejoice over you with gladness; he will quiet you by his love; he will exult over you with loud singing. (Zephaniah 3:17 ESV).

Conquering Your Giants: Biblical Strategies to Conquer What’s Been Conquering You

Do you have a habit you simply cannot break? A relationship that’s about to fall apart but you don’t want it to? Something God is calling you to do, but you’re running like Jonah? Then you have a giant and need to buy Pat Sikora’s new 13-week study on how to conquer it..

Conquering Your Giants bases ideas of how to conquer your own giants on the book of Joshua. As the Israelites had to fight off giants – both larger people as well as fortified cities – in order to settle in the Promised Land, so we can learn to fight our giants by studying in depth their examples. We can also learn what not to do, and that can be important also. Forming a small, consistent group helps because we usually don’t see our blind spots, so we support each other. If you can’t find anyone to partner with, however, you can still get significant help by studying on your own. Many Scriptures other than Joshua are included so simply reading the book of Joshua won’t bring nearly the healing that going week by week will.

Conquering Your Giants: Biblical Strategies to Conquer What’s Been Conquering You goes on sale December 1 on Amazon. A short journal and the E-book are advertised now, but I wouldn’t advise the E-book. This study is one you’ll be wanting to come back to repeatedly, to see your responses, and maybe find better ones. The paper edition has plenty of room to write your answers and add notes as you go. Conquering Your Giants will be half-price December 1 only, so put the date on your calendar. 

Uncertainty

Friends, I’m going through some of this now but am not desperate as this prayer indicates. However, I know the Holy Spirit gave this writing to me to help someone who is struggling right now. As I wrote it, I felt that struggle and understood how much misery that person feels. I pray whomever you are that you find this blog and it helps you trust God with all the challenges you face. . . . . .

Lord, I’m not ready for this. So many changes, so much wonder about how it will all work out, if it will all work out in any way that I can be happy with. It seems that the older I get, the more temporary everything becomes. Will it always be that way? Why does change have to occur so often and so interrupting of my life? What comes next?

Can I really depend on you to work out all the changes so I’m at least satisfied with them, if not happy with them? I know your Word says I can depend on you in all circumstances, but sometimes it’s hard when I don’t know how things will end. Give me more faith to believe that you’ll work this all out. So many things have to change, and I have so much to manage right now, most of which is out of my control.

Forgive my questioning, Lord. I know that you’ll take care of me, whatever happens, and that I can trust you to be with me, even when I don’t like my circumstances. I remember how much I felt your presence with me, even when I was having so much trouble and trying to run away from you. You wouldn’t let me go but kept on letting me feel your presence with me, even when I couldn’t do much for myself, when I needed so much help and was in so much pain that I didn’t want to do anything.

I know that as you were with me then, so you’ll be even more with me now when I’m seeking your answers. I love you, Lord, and all I can do is to leave everyone of these complicated circumstances in your hand, and trust you to work out the whole thing.

“For I know the plans I have for you” — this is the Lord’s declaration — “plans for your well-being, not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope” (Jeremiah 29:11 Christian Standard Bible)

The Right Word

The right word at the right time is like a custom-made piece of jewelry. (Proverbs 25:11, The Message)

I’ve never had a custom-made piece of jewelry but know it would be expensive. However, sometimes a friend said just what I needed to hear, exactly when I needed to hear it. What value that word had! God used them to meet my need, and I thanked him, as well as the person.

When I was in bed a lot last year because of illness, I’d tell my daughter about an incremental step of progress I’d made but lament how little it was. She encouraged me to cheer up because no matter how small the step, each one got me closer to more normal living.  “Little steps count,” she’d say and encourage me to keep my eyes on my progress already made. I needed to hear those words repeated each time we talked.

Sometimes God enables me to give someone else a good word to cheer them or to help see what his will might be. In the large assisted living facility where I live, I see many of the residents from a distance but don’t know them. Today I saw one of those people: a lady in a wheelchair who looked beautiful in the pink outfit she wore. I told her how pretty she looked, and she held my hand to thank me.  It certainly helps me when someone does the same. Since many are in wheelchairs and I can get up and down fairly easily, if I see someone drop something, I’ll offer to pick it up for them.

I’ve had times when I didn’t feel well, but someone smiled at me. That cheered me on and put a smile on my face. Often that’s as good as a kind word. Since I must now use a walker, how much easier it is to get through doors when someone kindly opens them for me. That also makes me smile as I thank them.

We all need encouragement and wisdom from time to time. Someone might have been in a hard place, and we’ve been there previously, so we can show them what helped us cope with that situation. When I’m talking with someone and realize they’re in a serious mood and about to ask my opinion or a question, I start praying under my breath, asking the Holy Spirit for wisdom. I want to give the right words to my friend and depend on God to give them to me.

God uses each of us to encourage others, and we can all do that with a kindly gesture or the right word. As we start our day, let’s ask God for wisdom for ourselves and for that person we’ll meet through the day who needs to hear a good word from us. Simple gestures and the right words count. How can we make someone else’s day easier? How much can we encourage others with the right word they need to hear?

When I Am Anxious or Afraid

Like all of us, I’ve had times when unwelcome news came, or at least that possibility. Long ago, my husband said his job wanted to transfer us to Connecticut from Texas. We enjoyed our home and friends in Austin; our children were settled in their schools. While much worse news, like a job loss, could have hit us, this word unsettled us and caused anxiety about whether he should take the job. Besides leaving our older parents who lived only 200 miles from us and changing our whole environment, the cost of living was much higher in Connecticut. We finally decided to decline the job offer after prayer.

Perhaps a job loss has hit when few jobs are available, or you don’t have any savings to hold you over until a new position comes. What are you going to do? Will you have to move to find another job? How can you make ends meet without a paycheck? These are serious concerns.

I’d fallen and broken my right arm, after which followed a time of temporarily learning to do things with my left hand, physical therapy, even forsaking touch typing on my computer. Six months later, after a series of cortisone injections in my knee, the doctor said I had to have a replacement. I’d read and heard about this painful surgery and certainly wasn’t happy when I was told I had to have it. I’d had surgeries previously, but none was as painful as my broken bone. I knew the knee would feel about the same way, but I had no choice.

All these things make us anxious or even afraid for the future. What can we do? Who can give us advice? God tells us, “I know what I’m doing. I have it all planned out—plans to take care of you, not to abandon you, plans to give you the future you hope for.” (Jeremiah 29:11 Message Bible.)

At any time, but especially as we get older, a scary health report can come to us. These are times we must listen to and believe God’s words to us. Otherwise, fear and anxiety make us not only feel worse, but can hamper any positive ideas we may consider. An old expression said someone was “tied up in knots.” These circumstances can make our stomachs feel that way, slow our responses, and cause temporary, simple depression.

At such times, our heavenly Father comes to us and says, Don’t panic. I’m with you. There’s no need to fear for I’m your God. I’ll give you strength. I’ll help you. I’ll hold you steady, keep a firm grip on you. (13) I, your God, have a firm grip on you and I’m not letting go. I’m telling you, “Don’t panic. I’m right here to help you.” (Isaiah 41:10,13).

To keep our minds centered on these words and not stay awake at night worrying means we must absolutely depend on what God says he will do for us. That’s difficult for most of us to do, even if we go to church regularly. What does trusting God mean? Mariam Webster’s dictionary on my phone defines trust as: assured reliance on the character, ability, strength, or truth of someone or something.

How well do we know God? And for how long? Sometimes that helps because as we know him longer, we hopefully get to know him better. Do we understand God as a loving heavenly Father or as a harsh judge?1John 4:8 tells us, God is love, so we can’t hope for any better character.

The Bible teaches, and we believe, God created the universe. Since he has this ability, he certainly can do for us what we need. How strong is God? This Son [Jesus] perfectly mirrors God and is stamped with God’s nature. He holds everything together by what he says—powerful words! (Hebrews 1:3).

Finally, how truthful is God? Hebrews 6:17-18 states: When God wanted to guarantee his promises, he gave his word, a rock-solid guarantee—God can’t break his word. And because his word cannot change, the promise is likewise unchangeable. (Emphasis theirs.)

As I’ve learned to trust God in minor areas, my faith for more complex decisions has grown. For instance, in school I studied hard for all tests so that when I had one, I asked God to help me remember what I had learned. I did the same for my children. Faith grows as we see our Father be faithful in lesser situations so that we can trust more easily (note that I said more easily) in life-changing circumstances.

One time I drove from my home in Austin to visit my parents who lived in a small town near Galveston, on the coast. In a hilly section of a two-lane road, I stayed at the speed limit. Two pickups behind me were impatient, and both started passing, one in the oncoming lane and the other on the shoulder. Neither realized the other was there, but we were going uphill, when suddenly an eighteen-wheeler headed down towards us. Both trucks decided to get in front of me at that moment.

I realized a horrible wreck was coming, and with my foot on the brake, shouted, “LORD!” I saw a brilliant flash which separated the two trucks and pondered if that bright light might be an angel. The two trucks suddenly saw the situation, and the pickup in the oncoming lane scooted in front of me and then the one on the shoulder did the same. In a split-second, God rescued all of us, a quick and direct answer to my instant prayer.

In Judges six we learn about Gideon, whom God called to lead Israel against their enemies the Midianites. Verses 36-39 tell of the test Gideon asked God to prove he heard correctly. Had the Lord really chosen such an unknown to lead his country against one much stronger? Gideon asked God to let there be dew on a fleece when there was none on the ground and vice versa.

I think at times it’s ok for us to ask God for a sign to be sure we’ve heard his voice. Gideon humbly asked God to be sure that such an outrageous command came indeed from him. If I am truly uncertain of an action, I have sometimes asked God to give me a sign, and he has answered. But asking for signs should be done sparingly. Most often, God will lead us by other ways.

Have I learned to trust God always, according to the dictionaries’ definition? Not always. Some aspects are easy, like believing that Jesus is my Savior and that when I die, I’ll go to heaven and be with him. I can believe that my parents are in heaven waiting for me. I can believe the Bible is the true word of God, written by men but inspired by him. I’ve learned to trust God for many years and have seen him answer lots of prayers, but I still struggle with an area.

We may agree this way of trusting God definitely helps in earth-shattering moments of our lives, but how do we get there? First, we must not do the natural thing that comes to mind, usually panic. Other first options may not be wise either. Look at your situation carefully and see if you have alternatives. If so, pray about these and ask God to guide you to the right one. If there are no choices, still pray and ask your heavenly Father to lead you to whatever plan he has for you, trusting that he will. Ask for his wisdom and linger with him long enough to hear what that is.

Even if God’s answer isn’t what we want to hear, we still need to be assured that he still is there with us in the storms of life. That’s when we must depend on our Lord if we’re to overcome fear and anxiety. Our Lord will sustain us, give us courage and endurance, and lovingly hold our hand all the way of our journey. Trust your loving Father to be with you in every hard place. In Hebrews 13:5*, he says, I will never leave you nor forsake you. What a wonderful promise!

* English Standard Version

Praise God for His Great Goodness

Praise God for His Great Goodness! Praise the LORD! Oh give thanks to the LORD, for he is good, for his steadfast love endures forever! (Psalm 107:1)

Give Thanks to the Lord, for He Is Good titles Psalm 107. This chapter repeatedly describes Israel’s turning from God, being in more trouble than they can handle, returning to him, and his forgiveness of them. The first verse reminds them, and us, that God always loves his own, enough to discipline them when needed.

For the Lord disciplines the one he loves, and chastises every son whom he receives. (Hebrews 12:6)

The next verses declare what some of Israel’s children could get themselves into when they turned away from God. They wound up in deserts, prisons, cold and hungry. Some almost died in their sin and illness, or came upon huge storms as they sailed and thought they’d never survive. This chapter’s forty-three verses detail various ways the ancient Jews begged for salvation and were saved from a sure death. Though Psalm 106 describes most of the Exodus event, the same thing happened repeatedly. What does any child do when they can’t handle a situation by themselves?

As we scroll through this chapter, we notice the phrase below repeats in verses 6, 13,19, and 28. It reminds me of how many times I’ve taken a wrong turn and cried out to God myself.

Then they cried to the Lord in their trouble, And he delivered them from their distress.

Just like an earthly parent, God rescued the Jews from their difficulties, though some of them paid for their sin with their lives, as in the 40 years wondering in the wilderness. I’m so very thankful that each time I’ve asked for help, repented of whatever way I’d been less than faithful and returned to the Lord, he heard my plea.

When our heavenly Father disciplines us, he remains faithful to hear us when we cry out in difficulty or pain. Though I’d had issues with my back for years and learned to handle it, suddenly pain hit me like I never known. I talked with my orthopedic doctor, and he gave me a pain killer that didn’t help much. Three days later he told me to go to the emergency room, and I had two fractures in my spine. Finally ready to go home, I couldn’t because pain kept me on heavy opioids and I stayed in bed most of the time. During this same period, my husband fell and could no longer walk, so our children found us a good assisted living facility.

During the next months, I prayed for help with addiction to pain medication, and God enabled me to drop to a less powerful one without major problems. When time came to get off the second opioid, I was led to spread out the time between pills until I didn’t take them. I’d heard of severe withdrawal symptoms from all opioids, but my Father heard my prayer and spared me.

While my family supported me entirely and our children who lived out of town visited as often as possible, I also knew God’s love and comfort. Times of deep awareness made me feel like God had his arms securely wrapped around me. I cannot tell how much this meant. Even though I remained in our apartment most of the time those first few months, I didn’t feel lonely. God’s peace kept me calm.

I then prayed for healing from all pain but it didn’t come. Formerly I’d lived with my husband in our own home with me doing our light housework and driving wherever we wanted or needed. Now we stayed in an assisted living residence, and I’m no long able to drive because I’m not strong enough. I carry a cushion for my back, use a walker, and deal with moderate pain. It isn’t a scenario I want, but my loving heavenly Father enables me to be content in the situation.

I have learned in whatever situation I am to be content. (Philippians 4:11b)

Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort. (2 Corinthians 1:3)

In a tragic instance, my friend Susan’s husband had a major heart attack and died within three days. During that time, Susan naturally reached out to family and friends for prayer. Later she told me how she thanked God for those three days to sit beside her husband and say good-bye.

Susan lived far from her family and wanted to move closer, but had to sell her home and buy one in the new location. Would it be difficult to sell her home? It was one story and most around her had two floors; would that be a hindrance? What were prices in the new area? Could she afford something similar to what she had? As all these questions swirled through her mind, Susan asked for God’s wisdom and guidance.

Since an open house was scheduled for a particular weekend, Susan used that time to go find another home near her family. God worked a miracle for Susan, selling her home and leading her to another, all on the same weekend! Out of tragedy, God blessed Susan, and her praises rang out to all who knew her.

Let them thank the Lord for his steadfast love, For his wondrous works to the children of man!

This thanksgiving repeats in verses 8, 15, 21 and 31. Truly, our merciful Father God abundantly forgives us when we ask. That’s what the cross of Jesus is all about – so we can be forgiven each time we put something ahead of God. The last verse of Psalm 107 sums up the entire chapter. Therefore, let’s remember to repent when we go against God’s word, to turn to Him when we face any kind of difficulty and then to give our heavenly Father paise for his help in our situation.

Whoever is wise, let him attend to these things; Let them consider the steadfast love of the Lord. (Psalm 107:43 ESV)

Sandra Meyer

Playing Solitaire, Seeing God

Different Ways Our Lord Reveals Himself

            God is nothing like that! But sometimes I do see Him acting this way in my life. As I hunkered inside my home to avoid Covid-19 last year I learned to play Solitaire. A few characteristics of God appeared after I learned the game well.

Primarily, solitary never describes him. God the Father, Jesus Christ the Son, and the Holy Spirit function differently, even though they compose one Godhead. Scripture says believers are not to neglect meeting together (Heb 10:25). During the early part of Covid, most churches were closed; later ours had services in the parking lot and used a local radio station so we could hear as we sat in our cars.  As Texas summer heat arrived, the church was cleared to move inside. This verse in Hebrews speaks about those times we get too busy or lazy to attend church, not times we cannot for some reason.

 Solitaire may reveal a suit of several numbers together, reminding me of God’s quick answers to prayer. The next card I need hides until I find many others, comparing to weeks or months that pass before I see answers. Sometimes God says no or at least not in the way I want an answer. At such times, I remember when the cards are mixed in such a way that I cannot win,

God often reveals himself in scripture, music, other people, devotionals or teaching. While the general message applies to everyone, he says something specific to the  person who needs it. The birth of a baby proclaims how well our heavenly Father knows us and gives exactly what we need (Ps. 139:13-16).

As I think of Solitaire more, I remember other times God shows himself various ways. I started watching birds because their colors, various sizes, and eating habits reveal their Creator and his glory. The multiple colors, formations, and sizes of flowers I photograph remind me of God’s unique beauty. Mountains evoke God’s majesty and the sea recalls his vastness.

A dirt dauber got between our screen and window. I didn’t want to open the window and then the screen to let him out, assuming he’d come inside. As I prayed God would show him the way he’d gotten in, he had disappeared when I looked a little later. The next day I discovered that the screen had a place where it didn’t fit tightly. (I also pray God will protect dogs that get on the street, but this was the first time for a dirt dauber.) When I see how the Creator watches out for an insect, why do I have difficulty believing he will care for me?

As my husband and I took many trips to Teton and Yellowstone National Parks, we always marveled at the mountains, large blue lakes, and animals. Once while he fished, I sat on a rock and watched a colony of ants, thanking our heroic Lord who made a creature so tiny while setting in place the huge mountain across the river.

Our loving Father uses multiple ways to draw us close, including that still, small voice  belonging to the Holy Spirit. Remembering the various ways God calls, I try to keep my ears, eyes, and heart open for his word. Will you join me?

God Will Fulfill His Purpose for You

Does God really have a purpose for our individual lives? Will He really show us how to bring that to pass? When I wonder about this, I’m reminded of what the Bible says and shows in the lives of His people in the Old Testament.

For you formed my inward parts; you knitted me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Wonderful are your works; my soul knows it very well. My frame was not hidden from you, when I was being made in secret, intricately woven in the depths of the earth. Your eyes saw my unformed substance; in your book were written, every one of them, the days that were formed for me, when as yet there was none of them. (Psalm 139:13-16)

Be merciful to me, O God, be merciful to me, for in you my soul takes refuge; in the shadow of your wings I will take refuge, till the storms of destruction pass by. I cry out to God Most High, to God who fulfills his purpose for me. (Psalm 57:1-2; probably written when David fled from Saul, in the cave.)

[God] who calls you is faithful; He will surely do it (1 Thessalonians 5:24.)

Since I know that the Bible says God has a purpose for me, even before I was born, I’ll now look at a few biblical people to see how He fulfilled that purpose for them.

Because David is mentioned in the verses above, I start with him, realizing that God anointed him as King over Israel while he was still a shepherd boy. However, when David became a warrior, King Saul got so jealous of David that he tried to kill him several times. This was because the people sang about how Saul killed his thousands in war but David had killed ten thousands. Even though David had an opportunity to kill Saul, he waited on God’s timing when Saul was killed in battle.  After waiting many years, David became king just as God purposed in his life.

When Joseph was in his young teens probably, God gave him a dream of ruling over his family; naturally at that age, Joseph told it to his parents and already-jealous brothers. Later his father had him take some rations to his brothers who were away from home tending sheep, but they sold him into slavery after deciding not to kill him. From slavery to unjustified imprisonment, God finally led Joseph into the real call on his life so he could make arrangements to save food while there was plenty so they’d have it when famine came. Therefore, not only were the people of Egypt fed, but Joseph’s whole family when they came to buy food and eventually move nearby.

Jesus looked so unlikely to be the Son of God. He was born in a stable with low to middle class parents, lived in obscurity for 30 years. Then for three years He performed miracles and taught the people more about God than they’d ever heard, so that the religious leaders became jealous. Finally they demanded that He be crucified because they were so jealous of His power. After three days Jesus rose from the dead and fulfilled God’s entire purpose for His life. Today we call Jesus our Savior and Lord.

If I see these promises of God in the Scriptures, then see how they played out in these lives, I think I must take those promises for myself. I must ask God what His purpose is for me and then pursue it. That purpose may not happen immediately, as it certainly didn’t with the men above. God may not even tell me what my purpose is, but my Father will certainly guide me through the years of my life to bring that purpose to pass. Only one thing can stop this from happening: me not being obedient to what God tells me to do. Even with this, God can turn my life around so that I do accomplish His purpose.

I’m reminded of the story of Jonah, the Old Testament prophet. God told him to go to Nineveh and preach to them or the city would be destroyed. Nineveh was Israel’s fierce enemy; they were cruel and strong, overcoming their adversaries. Like I’d probably do, Jonah thought who’d want them to survive. Good riddance! So Jonah took a ship and went the opposite direction. When God showed Jonah that he’d be better off obeying, he reluctantly went to Niveveh and preached to this great city. Everyone repented and the people were saved from destruction for another 100 years until they again became intolerable to God. Most of the time I doubt God takes such a strong way to demonstrate His displeasure when we walk out of His purpose. But most of the time, we’re not called to preach to 100 thousand people to save them from immediate destruction.

Not only is it important for other people that I obey God’s purpose for my life, it’s vital for me. If I don’t, I’ll never know true peace in my heart and feel fulfilled in life. I’ll just live and do whatever I do but not know the joy of a God-filled life completing the purpose my Father created especially me to do.

Always Faithful Father

I rarely think about the hundreds of times God made promises to His people and kept them. God never made a promise without keeping it, even if it was concerning evil if His people worshipped other gods. I’ve listed just a sampling of God’s major promises, sometimes with consequences for not obeying.                                                    

  • God made promises to mankind from the very beginning of people’s existence when He told Adam not to eat of the tree of knowledge of good and evil or he would die (Genesis 2:16-17). Spiritually Adam and Eve did die, shown by their fear when He appeared to them that evening; beforehand, they’d welcomed God’s presence.
  • God made a promise to Noah that a great flood was coming on the whole earth, but to build an ark and his family would be saved. Noah obeyed and only his family survived the horrible flood (Genesis 6:11-8:12.)
  • God promised Abraham that He would make a great nation from him and Sarah. The beginning of the nation of Israel was born from Isaac, the child of promise in Abraham’s old age. (Genesis 13:1-7.)
  • Even Jesus Christ was a long-awaited descendant of Abraham. Did you know God has over 300 prophesies about Jesus in the Bible? All have been fulfilled exactly as stated except those in the future still (reference: the whole Bible.)
  • God said that the nation of Israel would be restored to their native land and did more than once after Israel disobeyed and went into captivity. Centuries later, our promise-keeping Lord did this in 1947 when that covenant became reality for the last time.

Why do I mention so many times promises God has declared and kept? Because that’s the theme of this article – God’s faithfulness to His people. To You and to Me!

At times I haven’t been faithful to God in my heart, even though I never denied Him or did what we think of as “big sins.” I simply didn’t do things I knew I should do as the child of a Holy God. Has He ever quit loving me? No! I’ve known His love, and the older I’ve gotten the more real it is, but that didn’t always keep me as close to Him as I knew I wanted to be but simply didn’t take the steps to make that happen.

When we accept Jesus Christ as our personal Savior, God makes a new and different covenant with us than the Old Testament people of God had. Why? Because Jesus became our offering to God to save us from Hell instead of us sacrificing animals to ask for forgiveness. God is always perfect and just; our human nature keeps us from being that way. God never breaks that covenant, even when we stray from Him. He always loves us as His child, even more than a parent loves and forgives a disobedient child. 

But when I strayed from God, I was like that rebellious child who even though they loved their parents, stayed away from them because they were unwilling to change their behavior. There was a gap in the fellowship and both missed it, but the child was stubborn. As people, sometimes we find ourselves wanting our way more than God’s way; that’s what happened to me. I was simply being lazy as far as God was concerned.

In Revelation 2:1-7 Christ recognizes the church at Ephesus for their good works, patient endurance and how they hate those who do evil. Jesus then gives a warning to the church, saying they have left their first love meaning – in today’s terms – they’d let family, work or self-interest come before Him. This is what I felt the Holy Spirit saying to me, that I’d put other things before spending more time with my Father.

God gives us that choice, but He always longs for us to return to our rightful place of easy communication with Him. When we choose to return, He draws us ever closer and we experience His love with greater reality. That doesn’t mean our Father doesn’t love us less when we stray but simply that our disobedience has gotten in the way of our experience of His love.

The Two Dogs

            Picture this scene with me please. I go to the animal shelter to find a dog to adopt. Let’s call the first Happy, who wags his tail, jumps up and down when he sees me and almost speaks, “Please take me home with you.” Then I see another dog named Sad who barks and growls when he sees me, seems willing to bite the hand that feeds him and who looks like he’d never become a good pet.

            Which dog do I choose? Happy who welcomes me or Sad who seems like he might bite me? Then I consider which dog needs my love more? Which dog is less likely to find a home? The answer becomes obvious, but will I do what is hard, or will I give in to my likes and take home Happy?

            Long ago I purchased a registered toy poodle but got her for an inexpensive price. Why? Because the owner breed poodles and this one had a litter which all died. The vet told the lady she’d never be able to have live pups. I didn’t care about that because our son wanted a puppy. Naturally, at first she was shy in her new surroundings, but we figured she’d get used to us soon. Quickly she became “my” pet but was afraid of my husband and two sons. Later I asked my friend who had told me the dog was for sale what had caused the dog to be afraid of males. She told me the lady had two hyperactive sons and that her husband had hit the dog with a broom a couple of times. No wonder she was afraid of men. We had her a dozen years or more and she eventually lost all her fear and was a pet to the guys in our home as well as the gals. What changed her? Love and good treatment.

            Why do I mention this imaginary story and a true one? Because many people are quite sad about our presidential election last November. I’m one of those who is, and it would be easy to gripe and complain about what’s happening in our country. But yesterday I read two articles on the internet talking about how believers in Jesus Christ and in the Bible need to react. Both basically said the same thing my pastor said in his sermon this morning: we’re not to condemn this administration but rather to pray for President Biden and his people.

            First Timothy 2:1-4 reminds us to pray for all people, especially those in authority so we can live quiet and peaceful lives. This is what God wants us to do so that everyone can come to know Jesus as their personal Savior.

The question and responsibility come to me then, Am I willing to circumvent my emotions and recognition of what I believe is right so I can pray with pure motives for a group in government that I don’t agree with? Am I willing to do as Jesus would do to pray that God would give them wisdom in dealing with the many problems our country has? Will I pray that God will bless them so that our nation can be blessed? Will I do as God has asked me to do or will I follow my own desires? I believe the future will show the answer to that question if we join together and bless instead of curse.  Death and life are in the power of the tongue and those who love it will eat its fruits. (Proverbs 18:21)

The Comfort of Love

Last Sunday morning at church Pam stood her two-year-old grandson just below the stage so he could watch her while she sang with our praise group. Christian stood quietly but clapping his hands in time to the music. Suddenly he spotted the stairs to the stage and realized he could stand right next to Meme. As he started climbing the stairs, a man well-known to Christian come up to get him but our pastor intervened and said to let him go ahead. All the congregation was watching the scene as it played out anyway, so it might as well be acknowledged. That’s when grandma took him up on the stage and put him in her chair, where he sat quietly and contented until the praise and worship part of our service ended.

As this scene occurred, I sat down and wrote in my notebook of how Christian’s actions illustrate a child of God wanting the comfort of their Father’s love. Human love may let us down at times, but His never will. More than this, it speaks of how others can try to interfere with that closeness. Now the man who reached out to Christian only had the best intentions, but in our daily lives, we do find people who try to keep us from God. Sometimes our foe isn’t a person but busyness or disinterest on our part. Perhaps we allow work or our family’s sporting events or something else distract us, so we don’t spend quality time with God.

But the child of God who understands just how dearly God loves them naturally wants to get closer to their Daddy-God, just like Christian wanted to get closer to Meme, even though he could see her about three feet away. He wanted the comfort of her love. Being next to her and holding her hand proved much more satisfactory.

How much do we want to be closer to our Father? Do we make the effort to draw nearer? Not that we must work harder for the Kingdom but that we must reach out and give quality time and seek God. He assures us that when we seek Him and draw close to Him, that we’ll surely gain the comfort of His love. Several verses refer to this: Deuteronomy 4:29; Proverbs 8:17; Jeremiah 29:13; Matthew 7:7; Luke 11:9 and Acts 27:7.

Take some extra time this week to seek out and to find more of the comfort of your Father’s love. He’s yearning and waiting for you.

Story of Anonymus Person

Soon after I posted “Receiving God’s Love,” I realized that I should have stated this story came from the Holy Spirit; it is not my life at all, except that Jesus died for my sins as well and I’m a child of Father God. I had loving Christian parents who very early taught me about trusting in Jesus as my Savior so I could have a child relationship with my Father. I simply don’t want anyone who knows me to think bad of my faithful parents. They were very good to my brother and me.

The Dandelion

The Dandelion

 

 

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“Get that weed out of my yard!” “Pull it up by the roots so it doesn’t grow again!” Most people don’t want dandelions in their neighborhoods because of their propensity for spreading when the wind blows their multiple seeds all around.

What if we look at the dandelion in a different way? Would I want to be one? Perhaps. Suppose we see the seeds of the dandelion as something good – like love and mercy. Imagine if I could live a life that spreads God’s love everywhere I go. That love would also bring forgiveness, compassion and responsibility. What if many people who call themselves Christians became dandelions, spreading the fruit of the Spirit all over our city?

The Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control (Galatians 5:22-23a New Living Translation.)

Can we even begin to imagine the difference our country would experience if everyone who calls themselves by the name of Christ displayed this kind of fruit? Think I’ll plant a dozen spiritual dandelions in my yard!

 

 

Letter to My Child

My Dear Child,

You can’t imagine how much I’ve longed for you, for the intimacy we once had, for the former joys together. If you were in some far-off country, I could understand it, but we live almost next door; yet I seldom hear from you. Yes, you often read the letters I’ve sent, but you don’t seem to take them to heart, and you rarely talk with me to discuss them. Can’t you understand that my heart yearns to explain in more detail all I’ve written there, to give you deeper insight? Can you imagine how precious your voice is to me? Each word you say, I treasure.

I realize you’ve gotten offended because you don’t understand some of my dealings; but if you were in my place, you’d have done the same thing because I see in the future and understand how things will affect you then. Because of my great love for you, I’ve allowed some things that momentarily hurt you and seem to your destruction. Dear child, you don’t recognize how much stronger you’ll become by weathering these storms and hard times. You need to grow strong and secure, not to be a pampered sloth. Just as your physical body grows weak if you aren’t busy tending to your business, so your spirit grows weak if you never have difficulties to overcome. They are there to teach you victory, not to get you down. Learn what it means to see your strength renewing day by day and your victories overcoming whatever challenges you.

Precious one of mine, you are far too valuable to simply let you slip away from me; that’s why I continually call you back to the place where you belong. Don’t get lost in the mire of the world; it can’t satisfy you. Only my presence can meet all your needs and give you the joy you long to experience once again. Come, sit beside me and hear my whispers to your heart. Show your love; don’t just tell me. Come, sit in my embrace and hear my sweet song over you. Let me show you my love for you. Wallow in it; enjoy it; let it encircle you and warm your heart again. You aren’t a stranger to me for I know you very well. Come, eat from my overflowing table and let your heart be glad. You are my beloved.

Is this our heavenly Father’s letter written to me? To you? If so, how will it be answered?

Spiritual Warfare Decree

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This day, in Jesus’s miraculous name, I loose the pure powerful witchcraft breaking, law fulfilling, heart transforming love of God, against every spirit of fear, fear of rejection, fear of failure, fear of being hurt again, fear of success, fear of starting your business, fear of writing your business plan or vision down, fear of poverty, fear of wealth, fear of fame, fear of the future, fear of intimacy, fear of marriage, fear of abuse or being abused again, fear of the past, fear of the present, fear of authority, fear of church, fear of relationship, fear of truth, fear of oneself, fear of abandonment, fear of not having enough, fear of the unknown, fear of being alone, and all the such like. I command fear to rot and dry up in your life and cleanse all the lesser demons out with it.

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Joy unspeakable!
How can I describe this blessedness?
So far surpassing all I imagined
The greatest words cannot do it justice.

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